If a woman’s anatomy were Disney World (not to make Disney kinky or anything…), her clitoris would be the Magic Kingdom—the main event where all the fun and fireworks happen. And her G-spot, a little hotspot deeper inside her, ahem, “park,” would be Epcot: definitely worth a visit, but slightly less exciting on its own.
Why? The G-spot orgasm is, sad to say, less reliable than the clitoral type—but it’s quite magical if you’re able to get there (or better yet, experience both at once, via a blended orgasm).
Quick anatomy lesson: Your G-spot is actually part of the whole structure of your clitoris, which extends three to five inches inside you along the vaginal canal. (Get your full Female Anatomy 101 here.)
While everyone’s G-spot is in a different, um, spot (sorry to be complicated), it’s usually located about two to three inches inside your vagina along the front wall, says Sari Cooper, certified sex therapist and director of the Center for Love and Sex in New York City. (Since blood flow to the area causes it to swell, the more aroused you are, the easier it is to find.)
“Not every woman will have a G-spot orgasm, and that’s totally normal,” says Cooper. But if you’re able to have one, you’ll feel a rush that’s different from the massage-induced clitoral climax.
Of course, you won’t know until you try—and these 10 expert-approved sex positions to stimulate your G-spot are the primo way to do so. Worst case scenario, you end up with a night of super-steamy sex. Not a bad consolation prize, if you ask me…
1. The Soft Serve
This position provides the perfect angle for his penis to reach that front wall where your G-spot is, says Cooper. Have him aim for that, or lean forward more and push yourself back into him to get there, she says. What makes this move even better? You both have easy clit access, so use your hands or a vibe to have a clitoral orgasm first—that blood flow will cause the G-spot to swell, making it larger and easier to reach for a second big O.
Do It: Get into the spooning position with him as the big spoon. Bring your knees up slightly and have him enter you from behind.
2. Girl On Fire
This sex position offers a chance in angle that helps target your G-spot even more—plus gives you control over the speed and depth of thrusts. Oh, and not for nothing: Your partner has easy access to your clitoris, so you can work on that elusive blended orgasm.
Do It: This position is just like cowgirl, but with a twist. Climb on top and have your partner enter you. Then, lean back and place your hands on the bed for support, creating a 45-degree angle with your partner’s legs.
If the name alone isn’t a dead giveaway, this sex position is awesome because when you raise your legs, it narrows the vagina and helps target your G-spot. Want to up the ante? Ask your partner to start rocking you in a side-to-side or up-and-down motion. That should bring his penis into direct contact with your G-spot.
Do It: Lie back with your legs resting on each of your partner’s shoulders.
4. The Snake
This version of doggy style offers a better angle to reach that front wall, says Cooper. And even though he’s in charge of the movement here, you can adjust the angle by raising your hips higher or lower (or throwing a pillow under them, if you prefer). You’ll love the deep penetration and snug fit of him inside you (as will he).
Do It: Lie down on your stomach, and have your partner lie down on top of you and slide in from behind.
5. Reverse Scoop
This sexy position has all the perks of spoon, but with more face time. Plus, by using shallow thrusts, your partner has a good chance of reaching your G-spot. And you can grind your clit against his pelvis, making for that coveted blended orgasm.
Do It: Lie down on your sides facing each other, and get in a comfortable position.
6. Gee, Cowgirl
Who doesn’t love girl on top? You’re in charge, so move (bounce, swivel, grind) as you see fit to make that G-spot orgasm happen. Try keeping your lower back arched, which will bring that O closer in reach.
Do It: Straddle him, facing forward, and bend back slightly while holding onto his thighs for support.
7. Good Doggy
This position practically guarantees G-spot stimulation, since it’s virtually impossible for him not to penetrate deep. Bonus: From this position, he can also stimulate your breasts or your clit to amp up your arousal, which increases blood flow to your G-spot.
Do It: Get on your forearms with your butt in the air. Have your partner kneel behind you and enter you from behind.
8. The Wheelbarrow
Wanna make things interesting? Try this hot standing-sex position that’ll hit your G-spot in seconds. If you get tired, all good, girl–simply rest on a table or the side of the bed to give your arms a break.
Do It: Get on your hands and feet and have your partner pick you up by the pelvis. Then grip his waist with your thighs.
9. The Big Dipper
With this sex position, you get the deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation of doggy, while still being able to make that important eye contact. Have your partner massage your clit as he thrusts for extra ooooomph.
Do It: Lie on your right side; your partner kneels, straddling your right leg and curling your left leg around his left side.
10. The Gee-Shell
This sex position is hot-hot-hot! The views, the angles, the…flexibility—how can you both not get off? If he “rides low”—a.k.a. doesn’t focus so much on grinding his pubic bone against your clitoris—the head of his penis will directly stimulate your G-spot. For clitoral action, go to work with your (conveniently) free hands.
Do It: Lie back with your legs raised all the way up and your ankles crossed behind your own head (or however far you can reach them), then have him enter you from a missionary position.